I Dont Want To Live With My In-Laws My Story: My in-laws force me to stay with them while I… – i dont want to stay with my in-laws

Expert Answer

Dr Kedar Tilve, a psychiatrist at Fortis Hospital, says that after marriage every daughter-in-law is expected to shoulder the responsibilities of the family. If their son has gone abroad, it is obvious that the parents must have felt very lonely without him.

This is also one of the reasons why he wants to make his daughter-in-law the companion of his loneliness, who is also the closest link to be connected to his son. Every human being in this world is completely different. So understand their feelings too.

Make mother-in-law and father-in-law your own

I can very well understand how lonely you must be feeling without your husband. But you also need to understand that your husband’s parents also have no one except you. He is completely dependent on you. They also need a support for themselves. In such a situation, try to spend maximum time with them and understand their mind.

can make plans

You said that you wanted to live abroad with your husband, but your in-laws are not letting you go. In such a situation, I would say that you can make a plan for three months. Actually, you can live with your in-laws for a few months and with your husband for a few months. In such a situation, your mind will also be engaged and your mother-in-law and father-in-law will not feel lonely either.

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