Shubhangi Atre said- She went to audition keeping her daughter in a kangaroo bag, today she was able to fulfill her dreams: Shubhangi Atre interview

Actress Shubhangi Atre of the popular small screen show ‘Bhabi Ji Ghar Par Hain’ might be making the audience laugh and tickle but at the same time she is also a mother of an 18-year-old daughter and takes care of her family. In this interview Shubhangi Atre talks about her personal life and aspects of being a woman.

Talking about your work, you are known as Angoori Bhabhi, in our culture the sister-in-law relationship is very comfortable and fun-filled, so how is your experience when you go out? Has anyone ever crossed the border in jest?
The character of Angoori Bhabhi is a very beautiful character. For any actor, this character is like a plate of 56 Bhog. This character has all the emotions. Innocent, even a little crazy so that the husband can make a fool of her. Whenever I meet people, the first thing they want to hear is ‘Sahi Pakde Hai’. If someone ever sees you in western clothes, then they say, ‘Hey sister-in-law, you are like this,’ they think that I will continue to travel in sister-in-law’s clothes. Many such things happen, I went to Thailand once, then I wore a monokini there. That’s why there was a ruckus that how did sister-in-law post wearing such clothes? I thought that if I go to the beach, I will not go wearing a saree. Many times people forget that he is a character of my life. Wherever I go, everyone calls me sister-in-law or sister-in-law. No one has crossed the limit yet.

Do you feel that women have to work harder than men to achieve something?
Yes, many times it happens that the words of male actors are accepted, but on the other hand, if a female actor is said then the whole thing is not accepted. When I came into the industry, they used to say that a married woman has taken a heroine. If a male actor is popular then he will be listened to, not yours. Whenever we are in trouble, we talk about equality. If ever I said, my child is sick, leave quickly. At that time the child needs the mother more than the father, then it should be understood. They don’t understand and I don’t think it will ever end. I think stay professional and keep doing your job.

You are a mother of 18 years old daughter (Aashi) and also a top actress of TV. How do you handle having a daughter in a demanding job like a daily soap?
He knows from childhood that mother will go to work. Being a working mother, my daughter had become self-sufficient since childhood. From third class she used to open the lock herself after coming home. Used to eat my own food, but I never forgot to spend quality time with my daughter. I don’t take home with me to work and similarly I don’t take things from home to shoots. Time management makes things manageable. It is important that you spend quality time with your children. Communication with your kids is the most important thing.

What is your relationship with your daughter like? Update you according to today’s era?
I got married at the age of 19 and became a mother very soon. The advantage of becoming a mother early is that my daughter and I are very good friends. We keep going on holidays. Packed up early, then go to watch the movie. We also go out for dinner. We both really enjoy watching horror movies, so when I’m scared at night, I ask him to come sleep with me. I don’t go to parties much, I spend whatever time I get after shooting with my daughter. Like you asked, how does my daughter give me updates, Aashi is currently managing my Instagram after her exams. She tells me that you should target the youth. Tells me what to post and what not. Many times I post kitchen or some strange selfie, then she explains that this is not to be done.

You are a single mother now. (Recently Shubhangi got divorced from her husband after 19 years of marriage) So what are the challenges now?
The responsibility has increased. But my daughter has grown up now, she also helps me and has become very sensible. I keep talking to my husband (Piyush Churi) as well. We solve all the issues with mutual consent.

What is the biggest guilt a mother has?
I get very emotional about my baby girl. The little girl had to stay away from her mother. My daughter kept watching me with her hand on the TV. When I came home, she would touch me to see if I was real or not? I will never be able to forgive myself for these things. But then it was necessary to do it. Now Aashi has grown up a lot, has started understanding things. Today Aashi is preparing to go to Chicago. Today, when I look back, I feel that all my hard work paid off. I was able to fulfill her dreams. She wanted to do astro physics and become a space scientist and today she is going to fulfill that dream.

As you told that you got married at the age of just 19 and you became a mother in your twenties, so how did you get the chance to become an actress?
(Laughs.) Even today my daughter says that mother, how did you get married so soon. But as far as acting is concerned, I was fond of it since childhood. I also completed my MBA. I have done Visharad in Kathak, I have been a national level dancer. My husband used to work in an advertising agency in Pune. Then someone saw my picture in his laptop and he asked my husband, will she do modeling? When my husband asked me, I said, yes I will definitely. 2500 was received for that ad shoot. After some time, I auditioned in Pune and that too without makeup, because I did not know how to do makeup then and Ekta Kapoor liked it very much. Aashi was then one and a quarter years old. I took her with me to the audition. I remember carrying Aashi in a kangaroo bag and when I reached there, seeing a young mother, the people who had come for the audition let me go first. I was auditioning inside and those people were feeding my kids outside. Ekta ji (Ekta Kapoor) saw that and I got my first show Kasauti Zindagi Ki.