i started drinking to make my husband happy but i hate it

[ad_1]

Someone has rightly said that marriage can change you completely. This is because if the life partner is good, your luck opens up. And living with a bad life partner is no less than a punishment. Although, when you marry someone, you feel loved, happy and secure, but this did not happen to me. In fact, when I married my husband, I thought that I would get everything that I deserve in this relationship. Maybe it’s because we dated each other for 6 years before getting married.

I thought I knew everything about my husband, but I was wrong. Unfortunately, with time things changed between us. This is also one of the reasons why I am experiencing the worst part of my life in my married life. (All images are indicative, we protect the identity of users in the stories shared by them)

she doesn’t mean anything to me

I married a man who loves his sociality too much. He always cares a lot about what people think about him. Although, this is a great thing, but sometimes it becomes a big problem for you. This is because in the midst of all this he forgets me.

He forgets all my needs. He doesn’t care how I feel. He not only gets busy in pleasing the people around him but also takes care of their needs in the meantime.

he hates it

Actually, my husband loves to go to parties. He also has a large friend circle with whom he often goes out to hangout. However, these parties are also attended by the wives of his friends, who are quite sporty and fun. There have been many occasions when I have also gone to dinner and pub parties with my husband.

It has been a fun experience for me, but my husband is not too happy about it. It’s because he hates that I don’t drink like his friends’ wives.

he used to beat me

I do not want to hide from you, I had never touched alcohol in my life. I didn’t even like the taste of it. Maybe it’s because I knew very well that people lose their limits after drinking alcohol whereas I like to be in control. But my husband always used to beat me for not doing so.

He always insisted on getting me drunk with all his friends and their wives. He hated the fact that I stayed sober while other people got drunk and had a lot of fun.

Not only this, whenever I asked him not to drink alcohol, his anger kept increasing. There was a time when he was disappointed with me. There used to be frequent quarrels between us regarding this one thing. He always used to say that I am not funny.

I felt very bad hearing all this, but even after this I always remained silent. When our fights became more frequent, he even stopped asking me out with him. During that time we rarely went out together.

friends’ wives made fun of

One day he told me that his friends have planned a big party in which both of us have to attend. So I happily agreed. That’s because I wanted to go out with him. In such a situation, the moment came again when I was asked to drink alcohol. However, during this time I got ready for mocktails. But this time the wives of my husband’s friends made fun of me and said, ‘Why don’t you try at least once? Being so careful at this age will do you no good.’ Even though we all laughed after that, I could see my husband getting angry.

So when we returned home that night, my husband started shouting at me. He told me that I feel embarrassed to take you out. I never want to go out with you. Tears welled up in my eyes after listening to him. Meanwhile I took a bottle of vodka from my cabinet and at that very moment gulped down a glass in front of him.

My husband was surprised to see all this, but he did not say anything. He went to the room and took his pillow and blanket and went to sleep in another room. As soon as I reached my bed, my mind started wandering. Suddenly I felt dizzy after drinking vodka.