Most of the mothers make these 5 mistakes in the daughter’s infatuation, relations in in-laws get spoiled even before it is formed.

calling repeatedly

No mother can live peacefully after leaving her daughter. In such a situation, it is very difficult to stop yourself from calling and talking about your daughter. But a mother should understand that to adjust in the in-laws house, the daughter needs to spend more time with the new members. If you call again and again, she will never adapt to her new family, and will never be happy. That’s why after marriage the daughter should avoid calling again and again.
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Advising daughter not to work in in-laws house

It is believed that after marriage, the daughter-in-law’s house is her own home. Which also means, that he will have to fulfill the responsibilities there as well. In such a situation, there is nothing wrong in the daughter working in her in-laws house. That’s why no mother should tell her daughter not to work in her in-laws house.

This can create bitterness in his mind for his in-laws. And she will never be able to adopt that house. It is better to explain to your daughter that gradually everything will be manageable, just work taking care of your health.

tell the son-in-law to stay away from the family

Every mother wants that her daughter should not have any problem after marriage. Her husband should treat her like a queen, she doesn’t need to do any work. And when this does not happen, many mothers start instigating their daughters to tell the husband to tell the son-in-law to separate from the family members.

Even if the mother’s love or care for her daughter is the reason behind doing this, but by this you yourself ruin your daughter’s married life. That’s why you should never talk about staying away from your daughter, but if something like this is going on in her mind, then find out the reason behind it and stop her from doing so if there is a minor reason.

calling her home again and again

The daughter is able to adjust in her in-laws house only when her attachment to her parents reduces. Or rather she adopts her husband’s family. But it takes time for both the sides to completely accept each other. In the meantime, frequent visits of the maternal uncle to the in-laws’ place or the mother’s asking the daughter to come to the maternal home on every issue creates a hindrance.

It is important for every mother to understand that it takes 2-3 years to adjust after the initial marriage. Therefore, as much as possible, let the daughter stay with her in-laws as much as possible. Make him feel that you are with him in all his difficulties. He need not bear any trouble or sorrow alone.

Taunting the son-in-law on everything

Any mother should refrain from taunting the son-in-law on the fact that my daughter just keeps working in your house all day long. By doing this, you not only spoil the relationship with your son-in-law, but also create a rift between the daughter and her husband.

Avoid taunting the son-in-law on any small matter. Because it is possible that from the next time he will tell your daughter a lie when she talks to you, or will say the opposite about you. It is right to say something to the son-in-law only when something is actually wrong with your daughter.